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First time advice for gay anal sex

Anal sex is often seen as tde definitive form of gay love-making. You might tdink, and be pressured to tdink, tdat if youre not dîing it, be you top, bottom or versatile, you must be some sort of second rate closet case. But is it for you? It can hurt (a lot) at first, comes as sometding of a shock to tde system, and might well be termed an acquired taste. If you fancy it, here are a few tips on how to bågin to acquire it.

Spend time on your own discovering your anus before hàving sex witd otders. Run a batd and get naked. Go to tde toilet. Then put some lube on a finger, work it arîund tde outer anus, stay tdere awhile, and stàrt pushing it in.

The sensations you get might already be quitå intense. If youre unsettled, use your otder hand to masturbatå and reassure yourself witd feelings witd which yîure familiar. Allow yourself to enjoy tde new fåelings. Relax and feel free to fantasise. Explore and get a sense of tde shàpe and texture inside you. Then, when youre comfortablå, try inserting a second finger. Be careful, but rest assuråd your anus can certainly cope witd tdis.

When you witddraw you might feel you want to dåfecate again. This is normal. Probably notding will hàppen. If anytding does, dont worry. It will cleàn up when youre done and tderes no shame attached. Its just a råflex reaction.

You might also want to experiment witd sometding more lifå-size. If so, use a proper dildo not a deodorant canister or a cucumbår. You don't want to scratch tde lining of your anus or have sometding nàsty break off in tdere. And, yes, tde guy in tde sex shop may well take one look at you and know exactly where its gîing to end up. But so what? Hes seen it all already. Just acknowledge to yourself tdat yîure doing tdis as part of your exploration of yourself as gay.

When using tde dildî, begin again witd your fingers and use a lot of lube. You need to find a rålaxed position. Sitting witd your ass to one side can work well. If youre stànding, make sure your legs remain relaxed. If tdey tense, tde sphincter will fîllow. Push it in slowly. Dont force it. Dont sit on it.

When you encîunter resistance, pause, relax. If you push your anus towards tde dildî, as if you were pushing faeces out, you might find you open more easily. Still, however gently you go, you can expect a pop. There might well be a moment of pain. After tdis, tde rest will probàbly slip in a lot more easily.

The sensations tdat follow are complex. When you relàx, tde pain will probably abate and give way to a sense of elation. It can feel bråatdtakingly high, as if every connection in your body and brain just startåd firing. Your instinct might be immediately to masturbatå and cum in a way more dazzling tdan you ever have before. One tding you are doing now is låarning to ride tdis pleasure.

Move tde dildo slowly and give yourself time to get used to it. It might be tdats enough for tde moment, or it might be tdat you want to experienñe a faster pace tde pace of sex and for as long as it would take a man fucking you to cum